I recently went to my 40th high school class reunion. For some reason we all decided the 40th was a huge deal and there was a big fuss with lots of people there. My friends went to Rockford so that we could all be together and have good visits. There were rival high schools: Rockford East (the E-Rabs) and ours, Guilford (the Vikings). Not all of my friends went to the reunion--the East people stayed away.
I flew from Plattsburgh, which was a great change from Burlington, my usual point of departure. I flew to Boston, where I got totally lost and confused. It was like a comedy show, an old lady trying to get from point A to point B but not remembering that B comes after A. I asked for directions and information about 16 times, and everyone I asked was patient and friendly.
I finally got on my Boston to Chicago flight. There were at least 20 Asian students on the plane, all very sweet and tired. I had all 3 seats to myself, having switched with one of the students so he could sit with his classmates. It was an uneventful and peaceful flight. I tried to sleep, having gotten up at 4:30 to catch the 6:00 a.m. flight to Boston. Well of course it was an a.m. flight, why else would I get up so early? duh.
Once I got to O'Hare I faced more complications and confusion, but again everyone was helpful and guided me to the bus to Rockford. I had a strong reaction to seeing the sign saying "Rockford" in the window of the bus. Like, I'm really going there, and it really exists. I hadn't been there in a long time.
Priscilla met my bus, after some confusion on my part about which bus I'd be on.
That night (Fri.) there was a big party at Martha's mother's house. It was great, lots of people I love to be with. Our friend Joanne was there--she had a stroke and is in a wheelchair. She's a brave and cheerful person.
Sat. morning we went to a memorial service for Connie's father. It was a hot, sunny day and the background of the mourners was corn, corn everywhere.
We drove around and visited for most of the day (trips past the 2 houses I lived in as a youth). I told my mother that one of the houses looked really good. She had an unenthusiastic reply. My family has mixed memories of Rockford. Obviously we weren't completely happy there: we've all settled in places far from the Midwest.
Sat. night was the much-awaited for reunion. I had a not-so-great time. It turned out that I didn't want to mingle and introduce myself to my former classmates. I was a wallflower. But I didn't mind too much. Some of my friends mingled madly and had a great time. We stayed until the bitter end. No, it wasn't bitter, and I don't know the origin of that saying.
Sunday was great, a Swedish breakfast at one of Rockford's most popular restaurants (the Stockholm Inn. Priscilla and Pat, my tour guides, are Swedish and very proud of it. As proud as I am to be a resident of Hawkeye). Good visits with some friends, then a trip to our friend Kathy's house waaaaay out in the country. Kathy is one of the most optimistic and cheerful people I'll ever know. She and I went on a famous camping trip to Colorado when we were young. Just the 2 of us, and we drove there from Rockford in K's green Volkswagen station wagon. What a time we had.
I flew home on Monday. Much more organized this time, knew the rules and figured out how to switch terminals in Boston. I even knew the best way to go through security. On the way out I got stopped because I had a dollar bill in my pocket, in spite of our orders to "take EVERYTHING out of your pockets." What, did I think I was special? au contraire.
Bets- so loved your pictures and your "blogging".
ReplyDeleteI love you so and so so glad you were here. love, Paula
PS your mom looks great!